As much as men take pride in
their habits, there are a lot that we need to change. For instance, men take
pride in saying that they are the “hardest” drinkers on this planet. Someone
mentions that to a man and they feel like they’ve won a trophy or a contest.
When married men are overweight, they play with their bellies and parade it in
front of their children and wives without feeling conscious or whatsoever. But little
do we know that some of the most common grounds that women cite as a holding
reason for wanting a divorce are the drunken tendencies of their husbands. Yes,
that is right. Although it may not hold true for the totality of the population
of women in the world and in the USA but it does account for a substantial
portion. So if you want to stop your divorce from possibly taking place, you need to show discipline by
drinking properly and not erratically.
Abuse of alcohol has lead towards
domestic violence of some kind. Alcohol as we all know it amplifies the
personality of anyone. There are those who act like total goofballs when they
are intoxicated and there are those who act like cavemen ready to bash anyone.
That’s why one way to stop your divorce from ever materializing is discipline. You need to control your
drinking tendencies. You have every reason in the world to moderate drinking. I
mean look at chronic drinkers with their belly bulging. In society, when you
look at a man that has a belly resembling that of a nine month old pregnant
woman, you think about “overeating” and “drinking”. A lack of discipline is
always associated with people’s view on how you handle yourself. Women always
admire men who have discipline and order in their system. It may seem hard at
first to contain your urges to drink but think about all the great health
benefits it can give you. Drinking too much can lead to halitosis and that may
not be appealing to your wife.
Remember that women, whether they
are career – oriented or not always look at men as the pillar of their union.
The moment a man deteriorates, the wife will always help him. But if there is
absence on the part of the husband to help himself, that would cause the wife
to lose all respect on him. That can be a ground for divorce.
All that was laid down on this
article are just some of the few things that can help stop your divorce from every taking place. Don’t stop asking
around though. Sometimes the best advices come from the most unexpected
resources.

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