Save This Marriage

When our marriage suddenly starts to crumble and we turn to our spouse and discovered that they have become a different person, we start to cry out: “How can I save this marriage?”

Like any other relationship, marriages are not guaranteed for ever after unless husband and wife will do his/her part to make their relationship work. But in troubled marriages, there is no one solution. No blueprint to help you reconstruct your broken marriage. It all depends on you and your spouse’s desire to get back together and right the wrong.

However, this advice can give you a greater chance to help you save this marriage of yours.

First and foremost, give all your effort in finding solution to your marital troubles. Avoiding each other, complaining and nagging as well as fighting and arguing will make it more difficult to get back your marital bliss. They say that what you put in, that’s what you will get. So if hassling and arguing is what you do, you will also get the same negative results. Put more effort in reconciliation and understanding each other.

Another advice is to communicate. Most often, troubled couple tends to clam up and avoid speaking to each other. In marriage, one tends to lose oneself in the relationship. You seem to lose your essence and value as an individual because you tend to think more of being a part of a whole. However, this leads to resentment. To save your marriage, you need to trust your spouse more, communicate and let them know you are not happy. Every problem can find a solution when it is talked about. Together, you will understand each other and find solutions quicker before things go out of hand.

Get into marriage counseling. Getting advice from a counselor or spiritual adviser can help you talk about the specific problem that has become the root of your marital troubles.

Finally, love each other, together with trust for each other and a relationship bounded by faith. Saving a marriage can be solved by love- the love that you shared as a couple from the start of the relationship. Divorce is not an ideal solution to every marital problem. If you have still feelings left for each other, then it is not too late to save your marriage.

So, if your want to save this marriage, give your best to find solution to your marital problems, learn to communicate for better understanding with each other, seek marriage counsel for the right wisdom and guidance in your decisions and rekindle your love for each other. With this advice, you will be on your way to saving your marriage.